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My Husband Scares Me To Death But He Still Loves Me. What Should I Do? - Scared Of Love

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Good day to you sir, I got to know about this program of yours through a friend. Please I need your urgent counselling because I'm about to divorce my husband.

We have been married for six years and my husband has been very caring. He can go to any length to show me he cares about me but he has one terrible character. He is a very jealous person and can go deadly with it. He gets disturbed at any slight suspicion. He has threatened me to stop my Master’s program so as to avoid his trouble. For three times, when he visited me in school and saw male students talking to me, he would first embarrass me then gives me the beating of my life at home.The strange thing is that he would always come back the next day to beg me. how possible is it that i would be in a school and not come in contact with a guy , its a mixed university for Christ sake.

I have called the attention of our friends and parents to this but he hates third party-involvement and so the situation has not changed. Recently he noticed a call on my phone. When he picked it, he warned the guy in question then asked me who he was. I told him he was my course rep in my school, he felt I was lying so he beat the living day out of me till I fainted. i was hospitalized for weeks. He eventually realized I was saying the truth then came begging me again. 

Recently, I have been having this scary nightmare where he stabbed me to death and knelt down weeping before my corpse. I want to run away from him because I think this dream is not just a nightmare, or is this a sign that he will kill me soon? Please advise me.

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