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Hi, Mr. Rhyno007 (Love Therapist). I am loved but scared to the bone marrow. I need your counsel and that of everyone in order to find a way out of this. Kindly comment.
I am the only young lady out of 4 brothers. When I was a young girl, I noticed that my parents fight a lot, where my Dad takes the center stage to beat up my Mum at will. It was really pathetic and I was not happy at all. When I was 12 years of age, my mother took me to a lady so that she would do something for me so that no man would be able to intimidate or oppress me. The lady in question made some incisions on my hands and legs and that was all.
In school, I beat up a male colleague who was tormenting me and my friends and different young men began getting really terrified of me till I completed school. Mr. Rhyno007, Love Therapist, my present husband engaged me and we got married. We are blessed with 2 children. He later had a side chick and really treated my children and me bad. This became frequent and it got to a point on a particular day that he beat me and I became strong all of a sudden, overpowered and beat him. Since we got married, he has never lifted his hands on me. This he did because of his love for his girlfriend.
I became worried about it and did not know the way out but told my Mum. She laughed and told me to ignore it. That from now henceforth, my husband would not lift his hands on me again and true to her words, I observed that there were a lot of changes. He gives me anything I want whether it is convenient or not. He invests more time with me and our kids and becomes more terrified and not comfortable with me. Despite all these, I did not want to expose what my Mum did to me years back because he really was nice to me.
Presently on Sharing Life Issues family, I am loved but scared. I need assistance; I don't need my better half to be frightened of me any longer. I love and have high regard for him yet I simply don't need him to fear me the manner in which he does now. I really do not have the slightest idea if I am liberated from that because I have gone for prayers. He does not make me angry any longer for me to know whether I will refrain from beating him in order for me to know if I am free.
Aside from supplications and prayers, what is the way out, what else do u figure I can do? Would it be a good idea for me to simply leave things the manner in which they are for sure? I'm frightened he may choose to leave me with the view of me threatening him. We have been married for a long time and It has been 2 years since I beat him up. If you don't mind assist me with the issue at hand. I need your counsel in order to know the way out.
I am loved but scared and would really love to find the way out.
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